Mr. Kincaid’s practice emphasis is divorce and family law mediation.  He has been recognized by his peers as a Kansas “Super Lawyer” in the area of family law.  He is certified by the State of Kansas as a Domestic Mediator and has completed an internship with Johnson County Domestic Court Services.  He is a former member of the Family Law Bench Bar Committee of the Johnson County Bar Association where he assisted in drafting the Family Law Guidelines. He is a member of the Johnson County Ethics Committee.  He is a former barrister in the Earl O’Conner Inns of Court, a member of the Kansas Bar Association and AAML.  As a trained mediator, Mr. Kincaid has helped hundreds of families to avoid the traditional adversarial approach to separation, divorce and other family issues. 

Mr. Kincaid helped to start the Changing Lives through Literature program and served as the chairman of the Optimist Oratory Contest for seven years.  Creative writing and running are his chief hobbies.   He has completed several marathons and has written five novels: Death Walk at Acoma, published  (Sunstone 1991); A Dog Named Christmas (Doubleday 2008); Christmas with Tucker (Doubleday 2010); A Christmas Home (Crown 2012) Tantric Coconuts (Crown 2014), and Noelle (Convergent 2017).  The Hallmark Hall of Fame produced a film version of  A Dog Named Christmas and it aired on CBS the Fall of 2009 and thereafter received a Genesis Award from the Humane Society.   The Hallmark Movie Channel produced and aired Christmas with Tucker in the Fall of 2013.  He has also published several short stories in Capper’s magazine.  He is a frequent guest blogger on and is actively involved in promoting pet adoption and rescue.

To find out more about Mr. Kincaid, please visit his webpage at There you can access his quarterly newsletters or if you would like to subscribe to the newsletter, please email him at He would be happy to add you to his email list.

You can also visit his facebook page at Sensible Separations

Admitted to practice

  • Missouri, 1982
  • Kansas, 1988


  • University of Kansas School of Law, Lawrence, J.D., 1982
  • University of Kansas School of Law Review, Assistant Editor, 1980–1982
  • University of Kansas, Lawrence, B.A., 1979
    • With Distinction

Certifications and specialties

  • Domestic Court Mediator, Kansas Supreme Court, 2003
  • Civil Mediation, Kansas Supreme Court, 2004

Honors and awards

  • Kansas City “Super Lawyer”, 2005–2015
  • Olathe High School, Wall of Honor  2010

Professional memberships

  • American Bar Association
  • Fellow, American Academy of Matrimonial Lawyers

Direct Line: 913-210-8347